Saturday, June 29, 2013

Kelly Sullivan Axed from "General Hospital"! I Don't Get It.

Soap opera fans are used to changes on their favorite shows.  We may not like them, but change is inevitable.  Most changes aren't THAT bad and we learn to live with them.  However, the loss of one of our favorite characters/actors when a show decides to let an actor go is NOT something a soap fan takes lightly because these characters and actors become like extended family to us.  We all have our favorite soap actors/characters, and we don't always agree with each other.  But every once in a while, you find an actor that is so talented that most of us can agree that we love him/her.  Such is the case with Kelly Sullivan.  Kelly has been playing the role of Kate Howard/Connie Falconeri on "General Hospital" since September of 2011.  She replaced Megan Ward, who originated the role.  It was announced this week that Kelly Sullivan has been written out of the show.  This is wrong on so many levels.  

First of all, she made the character likeable, which I didn't think was possible.  She brought a certain quality to the character that was different.  Kate was no longer just a stuffy business woman.  She had a sense of humor and was fun--and NICE.  Her portrayal of someone with D.I.D. was absolutely amazing!  So at this point, I knew she was probably one of the most talented women on the planet, and I was looking forward to her next storyline.  I had been getting worried because she wasn't on much lately.  There was talk of a third personality.  Then suddenly, we seemed to be getting something.  A Sonny/Kate/Olivia triangle.  This sounded interesting.  I'm not a big fan of love triangles, but hey.  If it gave Kelly Sullivan a storyline, I was all for it.  That's when the bomb dropped that she was being written out of the show.  It doesn't make any sense. Why create a storyline that could give her character something to do only to write her out? 

Point # 2.  Sonny & Kate (a.k.a. Maurice Benard and Kelly Sullivan) have great chemistry.  If they're going with a Sonny/Olivia pairing just because they share a child (but haven't been together in 25 years), that makes ZERO sense.  Yes, she's more his "type", but I don't see any chemistry there at all.  Not romantically anyway.

Point #3.  There are characters and then there are characters that change your life.  I was listening to a fan tonight tell how Kelly Sullivan's portrayal of a woman with D.I.D. literally changed her life.  I was brought to tears as she described how Kate/Connie taking control of her condition and getting the help she needed caused her to take control of her own mental illness.  Characters like this should not be thrown away.  Any actor who can change a person's life with the way she portrays a character is golden and should be appreciated by TPTB of the show she is on.  It isn't every day a person gets to change someone's life in such a drastic way.  Why anyone would throw away an actress that could do that is beyond me.  And I hope and pray that TPTB change their mind and keep Miss Sullivan.  I hope this is one of those situations where you are writing her out temporarily and bringing her back at a later date.  It's been done before, so I hope this is the case now.  Otherwise, this is a BIG mistake.

To Kelly Sullivan, I have this to say.  I admit that I was not a Kate/Connie fan when the character was on originally.  But you changed that with your brilliant portrayal of the character.  You made me like Kate/Connie.  Thank you for your dedication to your craft, the show, and the fans.  Your portrayal of Kate/Connie will never be forgotten.  You are very talented, and I wish you well.  I love you.  

Saturday, June 8, 2013

The Fan/Celebrity Relationship

I have always been a big fan of celebrities.  I have too many favorites to count.  It started when I was a teenager and has shown no signs of backing off over the years.  Maybe it comes from my desire to want to be in the entertainment business in some way.  Most people I know, especially my own family don't get it.  They think it's silly.  It's always made me feel like a bit of an outsider.  And it's only when I'm around other fans that I feel truly accepted.  

Over the years, I have formed a relationship of sorts with some celebrities.  I've talked to some on the phone and was very close to one for a while.  It always surprises me, though, when a celebrity I don't know well remembers me.  Case in point, I recently tweeted a celebrity I haven't contacted in a while. I was shocked  when he remembered me and said he hadn't heard from me in a while.  There have also been times when I got a reply back from a tweet, and I felt like I had died and gone to heaven.   

Still...I always had the attitude that the celebrity was there to entertain me.  It was their job. That's the life they chose.  The only money I should have to pay is to buy their movies, CD's or other merchandise they're selling.  So when I noticed a trend lately where celebrities were asking the fans to donate money to their projects, I was a little offended.  I mean, really?  I've heard of getting backers/investors for projects, but I thought that asking the fans was going a little too far.  I mean...they have money and contacts, right?  Why should the fans pay for their projects? 

Then I met a man online named Leon Acord, who has a web series "Old Dogs and New Tricks".  I now consider Leon to be a friend, and I hope he feels the same way.  He has totally changed my life and my way of thinking.  He posted a link The Art of Asking on Twitter.  After watching the video, I totally get it--and am now a huge Amanda Palmer fan.  I now see it as the fans being investors in projects, and I think this is a good thing.  We're the recipient of the final project, so why shouldn't we be involved in some way?  

Leon is trying to raise money for the 3rd (and what he says is the final season) of "Old Dogs and New Tricks". They need to reach their goal of $9,999 in the next TEN DAYS.  They are currently at $3,081.  Please help them out by going to Old Dogs and New Tricks Season 3 to contribute. Thanks!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

A Soap Fan's Opinion About Fans and General Hospital

I've said it before, and I'll say it again.  Soap fans are the most loyal group I've ever seen. It doesn't matter what is happening on their soap. They will defend their favorite characters to the death.  Unfortunately, soap fans can also be the scariest group of people you will ever come across.  I've dealt with fans for years and have been freaked out by some of them. But my latest encounters on Twitter have me totally shocked and freaked out.

We all have issues with our shows and it's unrealistic to think that no matter who is writing or who the Exec. Producer is, we'll all go with whatever they dish out.  Sure some viewers do, but I'm not one of them, and I've never been able to understand the ones who are.  But as I said in a previous blog, they are a soap execs. dream viewer.  TPTB don't have to worry about dealing with them because they're always happy.  I am not one of those people, and I have been known for my "poison-pen" letters.  But over the years, since I've been involved with different celebrities, there is one thing I have learned.  It's OK to voice your opinion. I'm all for it.  You can still give your opinion without coming across as rude.  It's called constructive criticism.  Unfortunately, I have come to realize that most people don't understand what constructive criticism is.  It means expressing your opinion politely. 

From what I have seen on Twitter, some "fans" haven't learned the concept of constructive criticism.  They think it's OK to say whatever they want to the head writer of their show, and if the writer doesn't like it, tough--it's the writer's fault and the writer should get off Twitter if they can't take it.  And Heaven forbid if the writer responds to them with the same rudeness and blocks them instead of taking the "fan's" rudeness.  Like being on the internet makes it ok for the viewer to be rude, but if the writer is rude in return, the writer is to blame. Um...NO! To those people, I say GROW UP and take responsibility for your words/actions!  It isn't ok to be rude to someone and then be offended when you get rudeness in return.  And it most certainly won't get you anywhere with TPTB.  

The worst case I've seen of this is the fans' reactions to Frank Valentini (@valentinifrank on Twitter) and Ron Carlivati (@carlivatiron on Twitter), Exec. Producer and Head Writer of "General Hospital", respectively.  It's no secret that GH has been in trouble for years.  The last regime under Exec. Producer Jill Farren Phelps and Head Writer Robert Guza, Jr. was a disaster!  Even I stopped watching several times.  What they did to some of my favorite characters was a travesty.  OLTL and AMC were canceled in 2011, and GH was next on the chopping block.  Enter Frank Valentini and Ron Carlivati who literally turned OLTL around during their tenure.  They have done the same for "General Hospital".  Considering the huge mess they were left to deal with, I'm very impressed with what they've done in such a short time.  First they had to clean up the mess left behind by Guza before they could do anything else.  That took MONTHS!  What they have done is nothing short of a miracle.  So you will have to forgive me if I wonder what everyone's problem is.  I mean seriously...do they not remember what the show was like just two years ago? The difference is like night and day.  Is it that people don't know good writing when they hear it? Were they so brainwashed by Guza's writing that they honestly can't see (or hear) that what we have NOW is good writing?  Mr. Valentini and Mr. Carlivati don't deserve the crap they've been getting from the fans.  They're not even giving them a chance.  It takes time to turn around a holy mess.  You can't do it all at once.  But for some reason, people seem to think it can be done.  These shows are written in and taped in advance. It's a slow process.  I have noticed that most of the people giving them a hard time are the ones who ONLY ever watched GH and not OLTL.  Fans that used to watch OLTL or both OLTL and GH seem quite happy with them.  The cast seems happy with them as well.  I hope the viewers who are criticizing Mr. Valentini and Mr. Carlivati will learn to at least give them a chance.  They seem to forget that it's thanks to them they still have a show to watch.   

I would like to send my love, gratitude, and admiration to Frank Valentini and Ron Carlivati.  I was a fan of both of you from your time on "One Life to Live".  You did amazing work then, and you continue to do so now on "General Hospital".  You literally turned "General Hospital" around and made the show great again.  I am loving the show more than I have in years.  It is a credit to your guidance and writing.  You are both extremely talented and know exactly what has to be done.  Thank you from this grateful fan!

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Farewell, Duchess--We'll Miss you, Jeanne Cooper

Recently, the soap opera world suffered another great loss when "The Young and Restless" star, Jeanne Cooper passed away on May 8, 2013 after being ill and hospitalized for quite a while.  Today, the show honored her with a tribute--no, make that a celebration of her life.  Knowing what little I do of Ms. Cooper, mostly from posts on Facebook and Twitter from her son, Corbin Bernsen, she'd probably come back to haunt me if I called it a "tribute".  Somehow, the word "tribute", while honorable, seems wrong in this case--sad, actually.  I'm sure Ms. Cooper wouldn't have wanted that.  So I will call it a celebration.  

Ms. Cooper, Jeanne or Jeannie as many lovingly called her, was well loved by everyone.  Not just everyone who had the chance to know her or work with her, but I mean by EVERYONE, whether you watched Y&R or not.  I can honestly say that I have never met anyone who didn't love Jeanne Cooper.  She gave love and respect to her fellow actors and people in general, and in turn she got love and respect back.  Or is that the other way around?  I'm not really sure.  Maybe it's just a circle.  She was also a no-nonsense, outspoken type.  "Direct and to the point" is probably the phrase I'm looking for here.  And she was very open about most things in her life.  The most memorable example of her openness was when she had a face lift on TV during a Y&R storyline in 1984.  I remember that like it was yesterday.  I was 16 years old, and I can remember reading that she was going to do it. I remember thinking "She's going to do WHAT?!!"  It was truly a first for daytime television.  To this day, I can't believe she did it.  But that is the kind of woman she was, and I admired her for that.  I still do.  More people should be like her.  

I wish I had been able to meet her and get to know her.  Those that did are very lucky.  She seems like she was one heck of a lady.  She was a true legend.  Not just because of her great acting ability.  That is only part of it.  But because of the way she treated people.  Treating people with kindness, love, and respect, giving of yourself, helping out your fellow actors--that is what makes someone a true legend.  

Farewell, Duchess--Jeanne--Jeannie--We love you and miss you.  

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

OLTL/AMC Fans Get the Short End of the Deal AGAIN!

If you're a soap fan, you are probably well aware of the fact that "One Life to Live" and "All My Children" were canceled and last aired January 2011.  Fans were outraged, and protests were held.  Unfortunately, nothing could change the minds of TPTB of ABC. Enter a little known company called Prospect Park who said they were committed to bringing back BOTH shows online.  Online?  This is different--definitely a new concept to soap fans.  It was the miracle the fans of both soap operas had been hoping and praying for. The fact that the average fan never heard of this company (which should've been a clue) didn't seem to matter.  Fans were thrilled beyond belief!  We were getting our shows back! Shows were scheduled to begin in January 2012.  Good news, right?  WRONG! The day before Thanksgiving, Prospect Park announced they were shelving the idea. Fans were outraged!  My Twitter timeline was full of tweets from angry fans.  Who could blame them?  I did my share of venting as well.  We put our trust in this company and felt let down and betrayed again.  Fans once again quickly rallied and launched a campaign to prove that there was a life for the shows online.

In the meantime, "General Hospital" named Frank Valentini and Ron Carlivati from "One Life to Live" Exec. Producer and Head Writer.  Not only did Mr. Valentini and Mr. Carlivati turn GH around and give us back our show, which had gone downhill with the previous regime, but they also gave us back a little bit of "One Life to Live" by bringing on Kristen Alderson, Roger Howarth, and Michael Easton as their characters from "One Life to Live". The actors were on contract, but the "characters" were on loan from Prospect Park. Everything was going well and the OLTL fans were happy since it seemed that Prospect Park dropped the ball and would not be bringing back "One Life to Live".  Nobody--I repeat--NOBODY thought "One Life to Live" and "All My Children" were coming back at this point.  

Then, just when we thought all hope was lost, we learned in January of 2013 that the shows would indeed be brought back online.  Fans were thrilled beyond belief!  Everything was going our way---FINALLY!  We were getting the justice we deserved.  It was eventually announced that the first episodes would be airing on April 29, 2013.  They would be available for FREE on Hulu. They would also be available on Hulu Plus if you wanted to pay $7.99 for a subscription to the site an also on iTunes.  Prospect Park and The Online Network promoted the shows by saying the shows were available "Anytime, Anywhere.  It's no longer daytime. It's anytime".  I couldn't believe it!  I could watch the show on MY schedule?  Really?  This was a soap opera fan's dream!  Wrong again!

Fans waited with anticipation for the debut.  The day finally arrived.  Fans tuned in to see their shows.  It was heaven! The actors were happy, the fans were happy, and both shows were in the top 5 on iTunes.  Everything was going better than expected.  And then it happened....

After only THREE WEEKS, The Online Network, parent company of Prospect Park, released a press release on May 16 announcing that they were cutting back on episodes. They would only be showing TWO episodes a week of each show instead of FOUR.  The reason?  Apparently, the fans are at fault.  Yep, they sited fans' viewing habits as the problem. They said the fans have been watching on demand or "binge viewing" (watching all episodes at once).  Now, let's think about this, shall we?  First, it's Hulu and iTunes. Of course it's on demand! And binge watching?  Hello? Did they not encourage BOTH these things when they said "It's no longer daytime.  It's anytime!"?  THAT was the beauty of this whole venture!  Heck, even the actors themselves were constantly saying "It's no longer daytime.  It's anytime!".  Now, PP/TOLN has promoted it as "anytime" TV, the actors were also promoting it as such.  So WHAT did they expect from the viewers? Of course we're going to watch when we can.  Furthermore, they said that due to their research and after analyzing our viewing habits, they feel they "have been expecting our audience to dedicate what has turned out to be an excessive amount of time to viewing these shows."  They also said "We are finding that asking most people to regularly watch more than a half hour per day online seems to be too much."  WHAT?!  They are currently only showing four half-hour hour shows weekly of both series. That is a total of TWO HOURS a week!  For the most part, soap opera fans are used to watching FIVE HOURS of each of their shows EVERY WEEK.  And we have never had any trouble keeping up. Now they want to cut it down to 2 shows a week for each series.  That is a total of ONE HOUR of programming PER SERIES, people!  

They go on to say "The clear conclusion is that while somewhat mixed, these viewing patterns resemble more closely the typical patterns of online viewing rather than how one would watch traditional television."  Is that a serious statement?  It has to be one of the dumbest things I've ever heard.  Here's a thought.  Maybe they resemble the typical patterns of online viewing rather than traditional television because THEY ARE ONLINE SHOWS NOW!  

In addition, they basically said that we need to watch BOTH AMC and OLTL to ensure the success of the shows.  Heck, they pretty much demanded it.  Basically, if one fails, they both fail.  Now, I can't speak for everyone, but I only ever watched OLTL even though I kept up with AMC through magazines and  occasional channel switching during commercials. Now I'm expected to watch AMC as well as OLTL?  I feel like a gun is being held to my head, and I don't like it one bit.  Watching a show is supposed to be a CHOICE, not a MUST.  We were also told we need to watch the show on the day they first air in order for it to count and to make this a success.  Nevermind that the shows have constantly been in the Top 5, which proves it's working.

Let's recap, shall we?  Not only are we too slow and stupid to keep up with 2-4 hours of programming a week (not counting the unnecessary recap shows), but we're being punished for watching when and how we want and being told we need to watch both shows the day they originally air.  This is insulting!   Instead of demanding we watch both shows, why didn't they try ASKING?  (Note to Prospect Park/The Online Network:  Try watching this: The Art of Asking. You might actually learn something.)

Now, I have been a loyal daytime viewer for over 30 years.  I have also been lucky enough to have been involved with different soap celebrities over the years, and I know some of what goes on "behind the scenes".  So I am suspicious by nature and know a load of bull when I hear it.  This press release by The Online Network REEKS of a cover-up.  They based their decisions on TWO weeks of shows.  Two weeks, in which BOTH shows were in the Top 5 on iTunes.  It doesn't add up!  It seems to me that they bit off more than they could chew. They should've taken the time to do more research and learn viewers' viewing habits BEFORE they decided to go ahead with bringing the shows back. They should've done more planning, research, and thinking things through instead of jumping into this so fast.  If it's a money issue, fine.  Just tell us.  Contrary to what they obviously think, we won't break.  All we expect is HONESTY.  But PLEASE don't make US the bad guys because you didn't do your homework.  The fans deserve better.

This feels like ABC all over again. We're being disrespected.  The sad part is there are fans who will actually do whatever Prospect Park/The Online Network wants.  I'm serious. Over the years, I've had numerous encounters with this type of fan.  They're the ones who are ALWAYS happy with EVERYTHING on their soap.  They will blindly do whatever is asked of them to help out their favorite show.  I fondly refer to these people as Stepford Viewers.  Don't get me wrong.  I don't think it's completely bad.  Annoying to a point, maybe.  But it's a soap opera's execs. dream to have these viewers. Soaps need these viewers. They get to do whatever they want, and the viewer will be happy while the rest of us who speak up are considered nags, pests, and never happy.  More fans need to start speaking up.  I'm not saying be rude. I'm saying be politely critical.  Constructive criticism is a good thing.  But don't just lie down and take it when a network/company pulls what Prospect Park/The Online Network is doing.  Show them we're not stupid. Fight for what you deserve and don't you dare give up one minute before you get it!  Remmber--THEY need US, not the other way around.  

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Misuse of the Word Bully is An Insult

How many of us have read/heard something about someone and defended that person to the person who made the comment?  It doesn't matter if the injured party is someone you know or don't know.  No big deal, right?  I've always thought it was nice when someone did that and have felt the need to do it myself on occasion.  It isn't that I didn't think the person could defend themselves. I know they can. It's just my nature to speak up.  I know I would want people to do the same for me and appreciate it when they do.  So imagine my surprise when I recently stuck up for someone and was labeled---*gasp*---a bully by the people making the nasty comments.

The unfortunate incident began on Twitter when I read comments directed towards a writer of a TV show.  People were criticizing him for some of the storylines on the show he writes for.  Now, there is constructive criticism, and then there is just plain rude comments.  I'm all for constructive criticism.  But these people were just plain rude and had the nerve to complain when he responded with sarcastic remarks and/or blocked them.  I simply tweeted that his remarks were sarcasm and to "grow up!"  People started attacking me over my comment and at least one called me a bully.  I've been called many things in my life, but I can assure you, "bully" is not one of them. People who know me can tell you that just isn't me.  I'm actually quite calm, patient, loyal to a fault, and have a very long fuse. I'm also very open-minded and usually try to avoid confrontation at all cost. But when I see/hear someone being insulted for no good reason, I can't stay quiet.  I try...but it usually doesn't end well.  I can be bossy and opinionated at times, but a bully? Me?  I didn't think so.  So when someone called me that, I was shocked!  My comment may have had a little bite to it, but it's hardly bullying. By definition, a bully is a noisy, blustering fellow, more insolent than courageous, who threatens, intimidates, or badgers people who are smaller or weaker than he is; an insolent, tyrannical fellow.  Now, I have been bullied before, and I know this is NOT what I did.  Not even close!

When something like this happens, I tend to question myself.  After all, we don't always see ourselves the way others do.  So I did the only thing I could think of.  I asked a friend's opinion, who agreed it wasn't bullying.  At one point, a total stranger, who had nothing to gain by agreeing with or defending me, came to my rescue.

To make matters worse, the same people attacking me over my comment said that if the writer (AKA the recipient of their rudeness) can't take it, he should get off Twitter.  I am SO sick of that argument!  Just because people are rude to him & he chooses not to take it, he should get off Twitter?  Umm...no.  Everyone has a right to be on Twitter (and the internet in general).

This whole thing got me thinking.  If it had happened off-line, it would've just been classified as just an argument because honestly, that's exactly what it was.  We also defend people offline and no one accuses us as being a bully.  So why is it considered bullying when it's online?  Defending someone is unacceptable now?  And why is it that people think that they can make rude comments to someone, but if the person they're being rude to responds in kind, then THEY are the rude one?  People seem to think that because it's online, they can say whatever they want since the internet is covered by the right of free speech and if others don't like it, tough toenails.  And when someone calls them on their behavior, well they're just wrong.  They'd rather label someone a bully than admit that the person calling them on their behavior might actually have a valid point.  It's easier that way.  Heaven forbid if they should take responsibility for what they said.  It just seems to me that people are hiding behind the internet as an excuse to say what they want without any consequences. What is wrong with this picture?  Am I the only one who seems to think there is a problem here?

I'm not saying that people shouldn't voice their opinions online. I'm simply saying that if you do it rudely, you shouldn't be surprised or complain if you get rudeness in return.  And you shouldn't label someone a bully just because they defend someone.

Any thoughts?


Thursday, November 15, 2012

I'll Love You Forever--R.I.P. David (Davy) Thomas Jones

I have wanted to do this blog for a while now, but I just couldn't find the words, so I apologize for my tardiness.

The date was February 29, 2012.  I was looking forward to what the day would bring.  After all, Leap Day only comes every four years.  I was sure it was to bring only good things.  I couldn't have been more wrong.  At approximately 1:15 p.m. eastern, my entire world once again came crashing down.  This is when I read a tweet that Davy Jones of The Monkees had died at the age of 66.  At first, I thought it was a cruel internet hoax.  There was no way this could be true.  Then I saw that the tweet was from the Official Monkees Twitter account.  I knew immediately it was true. I was and am overcome with grief over this sad news.  Davy was the youngest of the four Monkees, he was a vegetarian and very active and athletic.  As long as I live, I will never understand this.  It's just wrong and will never make sense to me.  

My mind raced.  Suddenly, a ton of memories came flooding back.  This wasn't just the death of another celebrity.  It was also the end of an era for me.  I recalled a conversation in 1986 during lunch in the high school cafeteria with a friend who was a fan.  Before that, the only thing I knew about The Monkees was that I used to watch re-runs when I was a kid and could only remember the Monkee Men.  After this conversation, I started listening to their music and watching the TV show.  Then in 1987, I started a fan club with a friend called Monkee Lovers Unlimited.  Eventually, I took over exclusively and the club lasted for 12 years.  I saw The Monkees two times in concert, and I saw David once in a solo concert.  I met David 3 times.  All three times, he was very kind. I can recall one time I tried to talk my way back stage.  Since I'm disabled, I couldn't get into the room they were in.  Eventually, Davy came out and talked to me.  It wasn't until later that I found out that Davy was the one who vouched for me when they asked if anyone knew me.  I was shocked and surprised that he knew who I was and would do that. Then there was the time after a solo concert that I met Davy again.  My father, who was pretty much dragged there, didn't know how to work my camera.  He asked what button to push.  Davy was the one to show him!  At the time, it was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life.  Now, it is one of my most cherished memories. 

Davy Jones wasn't just another celebrity to me.  He and The Monkees represented 25 years of my life.  Monkee Lovers Unlimited was the first fan club of several that I have ever run.  Since then, I have run several fan clubs, been involved in several other fan clubs and with several other celebrities in some capacity.  If it hadn't been for Davy Jones and The Monkees, I can guarantee you that I wouldn't be where I am today.  I would not have had the experiences I've had or have met the friends or other people I have met over the years.  My life changed because of Davy Jones and The Monkees.  You see, friends...Davy & The Monkees only owed me and their fans their best performance.  It is I who owe THEM everything because if it hadn't been for them, I would not be the person I am today.  RIP Davy.  Thank you for everything.  I'll love you forever. 


Monday, September 17, 2012

A Tribute To John Ingle, A Class Act

Dear friends,

Every so often, we are blessed with a gift.  Some we get to keep.  Others are only loaned to us for a specific amount of time.  Such has been the case recently with John Ingle. Mr. Ingle was one of those people you didn't expect to be an actor. I personally never remember him from anything before GH even though his credits go back to 1985. He taught Drama at Beverly Hills High until 1985 when he decided to launch his own acting career.  So when he replaced David Lewis, who I loved, as Edward Quartermaine on GH, I was a bit skeptical.  But he quickly won me over.

As much as I loved David Lewis, may he rest in peace, I became a huge fan of John Ingle.  I let him into my heart, and he and Edward were like a second grandfather to me.  John Ingle's Edward was different.  He did things I'd never expect Edward to do. I recall with great fondness the time Edward had a dream he was a rock star and was wearing a leather jacket.  Then when he did  a song from "Annie" with Emily during the Nurses' Ball.  But the most endearing, sweetest scene had to be when Edward sang "I've Grown Accustomed To Your Face" to Lila during their 60th wedding anniversary.  Oh, how I cried!

When he left GH to go to DAYS to play Mickey Horton briefly (A year?) I was devastated.  Although he gave it his all, as always, it just wasn't the same.  Finally, when he returned to GH, I posted a message online that said "Welcome home, John Ingle!"  

John Ingle was more than an actor.  He was a loving, caring human being.  He really loved and cared about his fans, co-workers, and other human beings in general.  That is what made me loyal to him.  I remember writing to him with a question about something that concerned me about daytime television.    He wrote back and genuinely cared about my concern enough to tell me who to write to and then actually told me to let him know what I found out. 

Mr. Ingle had health problems in recent years, and had been on GH off and on for quite a while.  His last appearance was September 11, 2012.  He never spoke a word, but just his presence spoke louder than words ever could. On September 16, 2012, he left this world to join his beloved wife, Grace-Lynn, who died Feb. 11, 2012. He left behind 5 children, several grandchildren, and many fans who love him dearly.

R.I.P. Mr. Ingle.  Thank you for your years of love and devotion. You are loved and missed by all of your fans. You gave us love, and we felt it.  You were and will always be considered a class act.  


Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Jen Lilley

For those who don't know me, I have been a soap opera viewer for 30 years.  I know the characters on my shows inside and out, and I detest recasts because most times, they don't seem to fit the role.  I'd rather see the character killed off than have them recast.  However, there are those rare gems that make recasting tolerable. One such actress is Jen Lilley, who took over the role of Maxie Jones on "General Hospital. It was originally supposed to be temporary, but turned into a more permanent gig.  

Let me first say, I have never been a Maxie fan.  The last time I loved her, she was 6 and had a heart transplant.  After that, she turned into a hateful and very annoying character.  Enter Jen Lilley.  I was skeptical at first.  However, this woman has done the impossible.  She has made me a Maxie fan.  She is that good!

Jen Lilley clearly understands every aspect of her role.  She does the troubled Maxie who always screws up and who people love to hate (or just hate, period) very well.   But she also brings a new side to Maxie that makes you care about the character.  Now, THAT is talent.  Trust me when I say I am not easily won over.  I have seen many characters that I, as a viewer, am supposed to love, but end up going "I hate you (insert the rest of the rant here)!!!" If you had told me before Jen Lilley took over the role that I would actually like Maxie, I would've told you that you were nuts and pointed you in the direction of the nearest psychiatrist.  But Jen makes Maxie actually likeable.  This is what makes Jen Lilley unique. Since she was originally a temporary recast, I made sure to enjoy every single second of her scenes and tried not to think about the day I'd have to sit through her last scenes.  I prayed that GH would find a way to keep her, but I wasn't holding my breath because I'm never that lucky.  But someone must love me because the day finally came when it was announced that her once temporary role was now permanent.  I couldn't have been more thrilled!  I now live for the Maxie scenes on GH.

In addition to her incredible talent, she is beautiful, both inside and out.  She truly loves and cares about her fans, and it shows.  With her talent, beauty, big heart and sparkling personality, Jen Lilley is sure to become a superstar. 

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Excuse me for reading!

Books have always been a big part of my life.  I am actually sitting here as I write this, looking at my book shelf and the number of books I have read---and even the ones I haven't yet.  I am not always in the mood to read.  I can't just pick up a book and start reading.  So I have books from at least ten years ago that I haven't read yet.  I also have books that I won't give up for anything because memories are attached to them.

When the Kindle came out, I rebelled against it.  I wanted the feel of the actual book in my hand.  I'm all for technology, but this was going too far.  Added to this was the fact that our local mall no longer had a book store. I was horrified at this discovery!  I mean, really....What mall doesn't have a book store?  People still read after all.  But nope...no book store here.

The Nook followed the Kindle.  They were both very expensive, so I didn't even consider buying either one.  Then one day, the Kindle came down in price to where I could afford it. I bought it, and it was love at first sight when I got it.  I was reading again, something I hadn't done in years. I don't know why, but I find it easier to read books using the Kindle.  I mean really...What is more intimidating...A hand-held real copy of War and Peace or a Kindle version of it?  I don't know about you, but I find a real live book more intimidating than a book I see one page at a time. All was well with the world at this point.  And then....

Recently, our local ABC affiliate ran a story about the effects of the Kindle and Nook on our economy.   Apparently, the Nook and Kindle have attributed to major job loss locally.  Hey, thanks!  Nothing like making those of us with e-readers feel guilty.  Don't get me wrong. I do feel for those who lost their jobs.  But how is this our fault? We are only the readers.  We didn't ask for this new technology.  But there it was. Something easy to hold, easy to read, and less intimidating than a book since you only read one page at a time.  Personally, I find that I read more since I got the Kindle. Isn't that a good thing?

Yes, I love going to a book store and looking for books to read.  And it is definitely better for my pocketbook.  That Buy button when you have a Kindle or Nook is WAY too easy to hit.  At least when you go to a book store, you have to decide what you really want to buy.  I do feel for those who have lost their jobs locally. This is not a good time to become unemployed.  But please don't punish or criticize the reader with e-readers, even if it is unintentional.  We are mere victims of technology, after all. And the way I see it, if you are reading, any format is acceptable. After all, isn't reading the most important thing?  So yes, people may be out of work but don't blame the reader.  It gives reading a bad name. Reading in any form is good, and don't let anyone tell you any different.   

















Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Grammy's Stove

Maybe it's because I've been sick, but I've been very emotional this week.  Tuesday was an especially emotional day because it was the day we got a new stove after the one we had died about a week or so earlier. Normally, this wouldn't be a big deal.  But this stove belonged to my grandmother, mom's mom.  

My grandmother, Grammy, as we called her, died in 1972 when I was 4, so I have very few memories of her.  I remember making homemade noodles and beef with her, and my job was to roll out the noodles.  However, to this day, I don't know if that is a real memory or just something I think I remember because the story has been told so many times.  I do have two clear memories of my grandmother, though.  One was of me outside her hospital window when she and my grandfather were in the hospital together shoving pictures I had colored through the window crack.  The other was when I decided to walk for her when she was on her death bed.  That may not seem like a big deal to most, but I never "walked" until then. And by "walked", I mean on my crutches and braces.  I was always too scared to walk because I was afraid of falling.  But that day, I decided I would walk for her. I even remember asking my father to take me out back so I could practice walking. Then I came back inside and walked over to her bedside.  Family member have told me that me walking was the one thing she was hanging on for.  She died soon after that.  

It's funny how you think you are over something, and then years later, something happens to bring it all back.  And just as weird, how an object can bring back memories.  That's what happened with the stove.  I couldn't believe it when my mom told me it wasn't working.  I kept praying that it would start up again, but it didn't. Then the day came when they were delivering the new stove and taking the old one.  I decided to take pictures of the old stove.  I don't think they came out very well, but at least they're something.  The stove was the one connection I had to my grandmother, and now it was gone, so I now at least have something to remember it by, even if the pics came out lousy.  I cried the whole day.  Especially when they came to take away the old stove.  I don't know why.  I was so young when she died, that I barely remember her.  But it was as if my grandmother had died again.  Then it occurred to me.  Since I was so young when she died, was this her way of finally saying goodbye to me at a time when I can remember it?  Or maybe that her spirit had finally found peace? Maybe it was a message...that I should let go of the past and things that didn't matter anymore?  I don't know.  I just know we have a new stove that is working.  If anyone has any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

One Life to Live--Thanks for the Memories

This week marks the end of an era.  "One Life to Live" aired it's last show on ABC on January 13, 2012.  It has been an emotional one for "One Life to Live" viewers/fans.  Not only have we had to say goodbye to our beloved "One Life to Live", but also to many of the actors/characters who have made it a joy to watch the show for 43 years. I, myself have been watching for 30 years.

The build up to the finale started last week with the prison break, although they brought back a couple other favorites before this like Erin Torpey and Tonja Walker (@Tonjawalker on Twitter).  Fans were treated to the brief return of many favorites in the last two weeks, including the very talented Catherine Hickland (@cathickland on Twitter) as Lindsey, Roscoe Born as Mitch, Ty Treadway as Troy, and Barbara Garrick as Alison Perkins. Can you imagine if all four of these people were in the same scene at the same time?  WOW!  The screen would explode from all that talent!  This week, we were treated to another visit to Heaven with Viki and got to see some of our kinder, gentler favorites such as Megan, Gabrielle (Yes, I said Gabrielle.  She actually made it to Heaven), and Luna.  And while Viki went to Heaven, Clint took a brief trip to...umm....well, I'll just say it--Hell.  Normally, I wouldn't be happy about that, but hey.  If that was what it took for us to get to see Stacy, played by Crystal Hunt (@Crystal_Hunt on Twitter), I'm all for it!  That was such an unexpected surprise!  

Then the day of the show....The day started with a one-hour tribute to the show on "The View".  It was a little fast-paced but it couldn't be helped.  You can only cram so much of 43 years into one hour, after all.  At noon, I tweeted "Two hours until the execution".  And I was being serious because it felt like one.  I saw a tweet from someone recently saying that the cancellation is like watching someone die and you can't do anything about it.  Yeah, I'd say that is pretty accurate.  Over-all the last show was great.  Sure, there were people I wanted to see and things I wanted to happen that didn't.  Am I complaining about it? NO!  Because as I said before, 43 years is A LOT to cram into one hour.  Ron Carlivati (@carlivatiron on Twitter) did an AMAZING job with what TIIC of ABC/Disney left him to work with--Time-wise that is. I honestly don't know how he did it. I'm glad I wasn't in his shoes.  My compliments, also to the ENTIRE cast.  I could tell your tears were real.  Especially Robert S. Woods, who was so choked up, he could barely say his line.  I got choked up right along with him.

I have always said that "One Life to Live" was the most well-written soap opera with the most talented actors. That's why this cancellation came as such a shock to me.  For months now, I have been trying to figure out how they could cancel such a great show.  They certainly can't use ratings as an excuse now. Not after the ratings have been better than ever recently.  Lack of fans?  Um...no.  Definitely NOT. They said it was to save money.  I'm not buying that one either.  Sure, it may be true, but the thing is they could have found a way to save the show if they wanted.  A lot of people have come up with very logical ideas.  I, myself, said that all they have to do is get rid of one of the high-cost prime time shows, move "The Revolution" to prime time and keep OLTL. If viewers and other people in the media can come up with ideas to save the show, WHY can't TPTB?  I just don't get it. 

I'm used to the lack of respect from TPTB.  What I find just as distressing is the lack of understanding and respect for our feelings over OLTL being canceled from our friends and family members, who are supposed to be supportive of us.  Case in point:  My own mother.  She doesn't get my passion for the show or why I'm so upset over the show being canceled.  She thinks it's silly to get that upset over "a show".  She knew I didn't want to be disturbed the last two days, but talked during the show Thursday.  I had to tell her I was going to be incommunicado from 2-3 on Friday, and to my surprise, she didn't give me an argument and let me mourn in peace.  What people don't get is that our favorite soaps, whichever ones you watch, are not just "a show" to us. It's a way to escape.  And when you've watched a show like OLTL as long as I have (and the many others who watched from Day One), the characters and actors become like best friends or extended family to us.  When a show comes into your home 5 days a week, 52 weeks a year for 43 years, that is bound to happen.  How can it not?  So please...I beg you.  You may not agree with us or understand our feelings, but please at least respect them and don't treat us like our feelings are silly and don't matter.  After this experience, I know I will be more tolerant of other people's feelings when THEIR favorite show gets canceled. 

Another thing that has me completely baffled is that some fans continued up until THE DAY BEFORE the last show aired to complain about the show.  And in one case, when I responded to a person's comments and gave my own OPINION, I got my head bit off.  *That* is seriously messed up!  The show has been canceled and all people can do is complain about how certain characters are acting?  Really?  Now is not the time to complain about things like that,  people. We need to ban together and be positive.  It's not over yet!  I refuse to believe that!  As long as we're breathing and fans want their show back and are willing to fight for it, there is always hope.

As for the media...Overall, they have been very supportive of our fight to save OLTL and AMC.  However, Friday morning I wake up to a half-page article in our newspaper.  I was horrified to see that it wasn't about OLTL like it should've been. NO! It was a HALF-PAGE article about "The Revolution"!  The same day the last episode of OLTL airs?  Are you kidding me?!!

One final comment.  My compliments, respect, love and gratitude go to the cast and crew of "One Life to Live". I have had many wonderful experiences as a result of being a viewer of the show that I wouldn't have had otherwise.  Thank you for 43 years of love, laughter, tears, and most important, memories I will cherish forever.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Case of the Missing Diary--A Short Story

Case of the Missing Diary

By
Traci Kishbaugh

     It was a warm day in the beginning of June.  Billy Williams, and energetic 12-year-old boy with blonde hair and blue eyes, sat in his Science class pretending to pay attention to what was going on around him.  Instead, he was daydreaming and waiting quietly for the bell to ring.  Today was the last day of school, and it was his last class.  Flies were flying around, birds were singing, and there was a nice breeze coming through the windows.   In five minutes, it would be the start of summer vacation, and Billy couldn’t wait.  It seemed to go on forever.  Time always goes so slowly when you’re waiting for something.  He always heard his mom say “A watched pot never boils.”  He never understood that cliché until now.  He hated to admit it, but his mom was right.  He tried not to think about the time.  “Maybe that will make the time go faster” he thought.  Finally, the bell rang, and Billy thought to himself, “Free at last!”
     Billy was the first one out of his seat and to the door when he heard someone call his name.  It was David Collins, Billy’s best friend.  They’d known each other since they were babies.  David had red hair and freckles.  He was one of the nicest boys you would ever want to meet.  He wouldn’t hurt anyone.  At least not on purpose.  They had planned to spend a week together at Billy’s house.  “Billy, I have to talk to you," David said.  I just found out that my parents made plans to go away on a family vacation this year, so we’ll have to cancel our plans.”
     “That stinks,” Billy said.  “A whole summer with your family?  Yuck!  That’s too bad.  Oh well, have fun.  I guess I’ll see you when school starts in the fall.”  Then he slowly turned, disappointed, and walked away.
     When Billy got home, his father, a hard working family man, was busy putting up a tent in the back yard for Billy and David.  It was supposed to be a surprise, but Billy walked in on his dad putting it up.  His dad didn’t realize Billy was there until he heard him laughing.  His father was very caring, loving, and a good man, but he didn’t know the first thing about putting up a tent.  He was good at a lot of things, but he wasn’t good at putting things together.  “That’s ok, Dad,” Billy said laughing.  “You don’t have to bother with this. David had to cancel.  His family is going on vacation.  Thanks anyway, though.”
     Billy’s dad put his hand on his shoulder and said “That’s too bad your plans are ruined.  Why don’t you help me put up the tent and you and I can camp out together?”
     “That sounds great!” Billy said. They put up the tent, got lots of food, and spent the night in the tent.  They had a lot of fun.  Billy’s dad looked at him and said “We should do this more often."
     “That sounds like a good idea. I’d like that”, Billy said, smiling.
     The summer seemed to drag on forever.  Billy called every one of his friends, but they were all going away on summer vacations.  It wasn’t long before Billy became extremely bored.  He spent most of his time in his room watching TV, listening to his stereo and reading his favorite type of books; mystery novels.
     One day, Billy’s mother, a small, quiet woman went in his room to talk to him.  “If you’re so bored, why don’t you call Jodi Watkins and hang out with her?” she asked.  Jodi Watkins lived a few houses away, and she was in Billy’s class at school.  She wasn’t very pretty or popular. She had straight, long black hair, braces, and glasses, and she was the last person Billy wanted to hang out with.
     “I’m not that desperate,” Billy answered.  “All the kids will tease me if they find out.”
     His mom just looked at him and said “Now, Billy, she’s a very nice girl, and she doesn’t have any friends.  Just think about it.”  Billy just kept reading, trying to tune her out.
     Some time in the beginning of July, Jodi went to see Billy.  Her diary had been stolen, and since she knew Billy liked mysteries, she thought he might be able to help her out.  At first, he told her to go away, but then he realized this would be the perfect opportunity to prove that he would be a good detective.  This was just the chance Billy had been waiting for!  “It’s not the biggest case, but you have to start somewhere”, he thought.  “OK, I’ll take the case”, he finally told her.  He quickly set up the Williams Detective Agency in his backyard to make it official.  Billy was in business!
     “First, we have to discuss my fee,” he said, cockily. “I’ll have to charge you $1 for my expert services.”
     “That’s ok,” Jodi answered.  “I have enough money to pay for it.”
     “Now where should I start on the case?” he thought out loud.  “I know!  What does your diary look like?
     “It’s blue with little white flowers all over it, and it’s red around the edges.”  Billy got a notebook and wrote down the date, case number, Jodi’s name, the description of the diary, and amount of the fee.  Then he wrote “Paid” in the “Fee” column.  Then he picked up the notebook, and they went to Jodi’s house to see if they could find any clues.
     “When did you see the diary last?” he asked Jodi. 
     “Yesterday,” she replied.  “I put it under my bed like I always do after I write in it.”  Just then, Jodi’s mother called her for dinner, and she invited Billy to stay.  Billy accepted the invitation and told Jodi they would work on the case after they ate.  Jodi’s brother, Tommy, a 10-year-old pest, had stayed at a friend’s house for dinner, which was a relief to Jodi. He was always picking on her, and Jodi was grateful to finally have peace and quiet.  They were having meatloaf, Jodi’s favorite.
     “What are you two up to?” her mother asked.
     “Billy is going to help me find my diary after we eat,” Jodi answered. “We think we know who stole it.”
     “Maybe it wasn’t stolen.  Maybe you just misplaced it,” her mother said.
     “No I didn’t,” Jodi said, positive she was right.  She’s always very careful with her diary, like she is with all her things.  She never misplaced it. “I put it under my bed just like always.  I wouldn’t misplace something as important as my diary.”
     After dinner, Billy and Jodi started working on the case.  “What did you mean when you said ‘We think we know who stole it’?  We haven’t found any clues yet.”
     “I know, but I just thought of a suspect.  Come on!  Let’s check out Tommy’s room.  He’s always teasing me,” she said.  “Especially about my diary.  I’m sure he’s the thief!”  They checked Tommy’s room for evidence first.  They searched his room from top to bottom, but found nothing.  Then they searched the rest of the house, thinking Tommy may have hidden it somewhere else to throw everyone off the trail. They didn’t find anything in the rest of the house, either. 
     “Darn!  That’s disappointing.  I was sure the little creep was guilty.  Now I don’t have anything on him I can use for blackmail!” Jodi exclaimed.
     Billy just looked at her in disbelief.  He was an only child, and he desperately wanted a younger brother.  “If I had a brother, I would never dream of thinking about him the way Jodi thinks about Tommy,” Billy thought.  “She’s lucky to have a little brother.”
     They checked Jodi’s room last.  “Maybe she did just misplace it or maybe she hid it on purpose just to get me to hang out with her.  It would be just like her to pull something like this,” Billy thought.  However, if he wanted to be considered a real detective, he had to learn to keep his personal feelings separate from his cases. Otherwise, he would never be able to do his job to the best of his ability.  He decided to give Jodi the benefit of the doubt, and he kept looking.
     They looked under the bed where Jodi keeps the diary. There were blades of grass under the bed.
     “Now I remember!” Jodi yelled. “That neighbor boy, Jimmy Hansen, mowed our lawn yesterday.  He’s such a bully, and he never liked me.  He’s the thief!  I’m sure of it now!  But he couldn’t have!  It was still there after he finished.” 
     Jimmy Hansen was a big boy, a few years older than Billy and Jodi.  He had brown hair, brown eyes, and he was very strong.  He picked on everyone and everything.  He lived next door to Jodi.   Mowing the lawn gave him the perfect opportunity to steal the diary.  When they went to Jimmy’s house to question him, he denied everything.
     Billy confronted Jimmy and told him his theory.  “When you were in the house when you mowed the lawn,” Billy explained, “you saw Jodi writing in her diary, and you saw her put it under her bed.  Then you forgot to collect your fee, so you went back and you asked to use the bathroom. That’s when you went into Jodi’s room to steal the diary.”  Jimmy still denied everything, but Billy insisted they look around to see if he was hiding anything.  He wasn’t lying.  The diary wasn’t anywhere to be seen.
     “I told you so!” Jimmy said.  “I may be guilty of a lot of things, but I’m no thief!”  Billy and Jodi apologized, and as they left, Jimmy said he’d let them know if he hears anything.
     As Billy and Jodi left Jimmy’s house, Billy said “One suspect down.”
     “What do you mean one suspect? He’s the only suspect!” Jodi cried.
     “Don’t worry.  I’m not beat yet.  I’ll figure something out.  I WILL find your diary, I promise!” he assured her.  It was getting dark, so they decided to call it quits for the day and start again first thing in the morning.  Billy walked Jodi home to her house and then walked back to his house.
     Billy said hello to his parents and went up to his room.  He took out his notebook and wrote down the names of the suspects, Jimmy and Tommy, and then Billy wrote “NO” next to the names.  Then he went to bed early—around 8:30.  He didn’t usually go to bed that early, but the case really tired him out.  “This detective stuff is really hard work,” he thought.  Billy didn’t have any trouble sleeping that night.  He fell asleep as soon as his head hit the pillow.
     The next day was Saturday.  Billy got up really early so he and Jodi could get started on the case and hopefully solve the case that day.  However, when Billy looked out his window, he saw it was raining.  “Darn!  We’ll never solve the case today.  Mom and dad will never let me out of the house while it’s raining.  They are always worried I’ll catch a cold,” he said to himself.  Billy was right.  When he went downstairs, his parents told him he couldn’t go outside until it stopped raining.
     Billy called Jodi to tell her he couldn’t come over until it got nice out again.  Jodi said, “That’s ok.  I can come over to your house.  I’m sure my parents won’t mind.  I’ll be right over."
     “OK,” Billy said.  Try to think of other suspects and anything else you might think is important on your way over.”  She said she would and then hung up.
     When Jodi got to Billy’s house, they went up to his room, which he was using for a temporary office since his real office was outside.  “Why don’t we dust for fingerprints when we go back to my house?” Jodi suggested.
      “I don’t have any way of doing that,” Billy answered.  “Besides, how would we be able to tell who’s fingerprints they were?  We can’t compare them with any others because we don’t have any other fingerprints.”
     “Oh, yeah.  Sorry,” Jodi said disappointedly.
     Jodi and Billy decided to call Jimmy to see if he could come over.  “Maybe he’ll have some ideas or he might remember seeing something.  It’s worth a shot,” Billy told Jodi.  She agreed. 
     Jimmy came right over, but he couldn’t help much.  He didn’t remember seeing anything unusual.  They spent the next few hours trying to think of something.  It was getting closer to lunch time, so they decided to take a break.  Jimmy and Jodi went home for lunch and promised they’d be back as soon as they ate. 
     During lunch, Billy’s mother asked him how the case was going.  “Not good,” he answered.  “Every angle is a dead end.  We only have two suspects, and they are both innocent.”
     “That’s too bad,” his mom replied.   “How hard could it be to find a blue diary with white flowers and red around the edges?” Billy pretended not to notice that comment, but he wondered to himself how she knew what the diary looked like.  After all, he never mentioned it.  “Well, finish your lunch,” she continued.  “Your father and I need to run some errands, so we’re trusting you to behave while we’re gone.  He’s waiting in the car.  We won’t be gone long.”  Then she left the house.
     As soon as his mother was out of the house, Billy decided to start snooping around.  There was only one way his mother could know what the diary looked like.  He searched the house from top to bottom.  Nothing.  Not a sign of the diary anywhere.  He was just about to give up hope when he remembered something.  “The desk!” he exclaimed.  Billy’s parents had a nice old desk in the living room that he wasn’t allowed to go into.  Too many important papers that a young boy might get into.  “If that diary is anywhere in the house, it has to be in the desk!”, he yelled out loud.  He started looking through the desk but didn’t find anything.  “Great!  It’s locked,” he said to himself when he tried one of the drawers.  He searched all over the desk and finally found a key hidden underneath the blotter.  As he turned the key and opened the drawer slowly, he prayed that the diary was there.  It was!  He found the diary!
     Just as he opened the drawer, he heard his parents come in the house.  He quickly pulled out the diary, closed the drawer, and locked it back up, putting the key back underneath the blotter.  His mother came in the house and found Billy sitting in a chair by the desk holding the diary.
     “What are you doing with Jodi’s diary?” he asked.  His mother didn’t answer.  She just stood there shocked that she had been found out.  “I knew something was up when you knew what the diary looked like.  I never told you,” he continued.  His mother swallowed hard.
     “All right. Yes, I did it!  Jodi’s mother and I wanted the two of you to become friends.  We knew you’d never be friends on your own, so we decided to help you along.  We knew if Jodi’s diary was stolen, she would ask you to help find it, and the two of you would be forced to speak and hopefully become friends.  And it worked, too,” she said, very proud of what she had done.
     “Very sneaky, Mom,” Billy said, smiling.  He got up from the chair and went over to the phone.  “I guess I better call Jodi and tell her I found her diary,” he said as he dialed the phone.
     The second Jodi found out about her diary, she asked him to come to her house right away and return it to her.  He explained to her what happened to it, and they both had a good laugh about it.
     That night before bed, he took out his notebook and wrote “SOLVED” next to the case number.  From that day on, Billy and Jodi were friends.  She spread the word about his detective agency, and he had enough mysteries to solve until school started again in September.  It had turned out to be a good summer after all.  Not only did he make some extra money, but he found a new friend, too.

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Friday, June 24, 2011

And ABC Just Makes Things Worse...


Until recently, I thought things couldn't possibly get any worse with the cancellation of "All My Children" and "One Life to Live" situation.  However, I once again underestimated the power of human stupidity.  Oh, ABC and Disney, you've been very bad, it seems.  When will you ever learn?
As if canceling two very popular and long running soaps weren't enough, ABC apparently has gone a step further and rejected offers to purchase BOTH soaps.  So lets recap, shall we?  First, they decide for us that the soap genre has no place in today's TV lineup, despite the millions of viewers both shows have that contradict that fact and cancel both shows.  Now they are rejecting legitimate offers to buy the shows.  Let me get this straight.  ABC clearly doesn't WANT the shows themselves.  However, they also don't want anyone else to have them, which means they are denying the viewers the right to see these shows elsewhere?  This reminds me of when "Guiding Light"/P&G wouldn't let Michael Zaslow out of his contract to go back to OLTL sooner after GL let him go.  My, my...Aren't we selfish, ABC?  Silly network.  You should've known that you couldn't keep this from us.  Apparently, no one ever told you that there are no secrets in show business.  If you do something, it's going to come out eventually.  And when it does, you end up looking worse than you did in the first place.  And trust me, you were looking pretty bad already. 

This latest move only confirms what ABC soap viewers have known for years.  The network doesn't appreciate or respect us at all, despite the fact that viewers are the reason they have shows to air at all.  Seriously, without viewers, where would networks be? And apparently, TPTB at ABC are laughing at the fans and calling us clueless.  How rude!  Yes, we know Frons has a boss, who also has a boss, who has a boss, etc.  What's their point?  The final decision to axe both soaps may not have been his, but they're acting like the man is blameless when he isn't.  He IS the President of Daytime at ABC, after all.  And in fact, things started going downhill with daytime the moment he got his job.  So do NOT tell me he is blameless or a "scapegoat".  I'm not that stupid.

If all this weren't enough, I've heard that ABC IS planning on firing Frons, but they have to find the right time to do it.  Now, normally I would say this is a good thing.  And it still is.  Getting rid of that idiot is way over-due.  However, they are only doing it to try to repair the damage with the fans that this whole fiasco has caused.  So basically, they are only doing it to get back in our good graces to make themselves look good.  Sorry, ABC.  Too little, too late, in my opinion.  Get rid of him for the right reasons.  Not just to win back viewers you've already lost.  How many times do we have to tell you that the fans/viewers don't like being manipulated?

To ABC, I have just one thing left to say (for now).  The way I see it, you have two choices.  Keep the soaps or allow others to buy them so they can live on and be seen by their loyal fans.  Pick one!  But you can't have it both ways.  Denying others to buy the shows so loyal viewers can enjoy them is wrong and bad business.  Shame on you!  As for "The Chew".  I will watch ONE show just to see how many people show up in the audience.  My guess would be the 5 viewers ABC has who can't think for themselves.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

The Continuing Saga of One Network's Blunder


April 26 was another big day for "All My Children" and "One Life to Live" fans.  It was the day that there were not one, two, not even 3 protests outside ABC studios.  But almost TWENTY, including one in New York and one in Los Angeles.  Each protest had 20-50 people and lasted 2 hours.  The turn out was small but decent enough considering the time element.  Fans needed to act fast because we want our message heard loud and clear, so the protests had to be right away, which made it hard for some people to attend because of work.  However, those of us who could not attend physically were there in spirit.  In addition, each protest reached both goals.  The main goal was to prove our loyalty to the shows and commitment to this cause.  Second, they were hoping to get media attention because, hey, it's free.  Mission accomplished!

From what I've heard about the protests, they were peaceful.  After all, soap fans do know how to conduct themselves in public when trying to save their favorite shows.  Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for Disney/ABC employees.  Since this whole mess with the cancellation began, I have been shocked at the behavior of the Disney/ABC employees.  It has progressively gotten worse.  During the protest in New York, an employee called the cops, who quickly found out there was no need because it was a peaceful demonstration.  They must've thought the employee was looney toons or something.  In Los Angeles, a Disney/ABC employee actually shouted to the protestors "Read a book!".  Can you say "unprofessional"?  I'm sure Walt Disney, Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck, and all the other Disney characters would be so proud of this person--NOT!  I mean really, is this the way you'd expect an employee of Disney to behave?  Doesn't exactly make them look good, does it?  Hasn't he ever heard of conducting himself professionally so it reflects well on the company he works for?  How about instead of calling Disney World The Happiest Place on Earth, they change their motto to "Come Be Yelled At By Our Rude Staff".  Or how about "Welcome to Disney World. We want your business, we'll take your money, but you don't matter to us."  Oh, and it should be noted that one of the people in the crowd the employee shouted this at actually WROTE a book.  Hey, rude guy!  Know what you are talking about before you shoot off your mouth.  Better yet, don't shoot your mouth off at all.  And FYI, some of us can do both--read and watch our favorite soaps--at the same time! 

And it only gets worse for ABC.  The children of the creators of "General Hospital" are suing ABC for money from the syndication of the show.  Karma has reared it's ugly head at last!  Took long enough.  

There are some positive things to report, though.  First, the press seems to be siding with the fans.  They are portraying us in a positive way and saying things about ABC and Brian Frons that we fans have been saying for quite a while now.  In addition, I've heard rumors that Frons' days at ABC are numbered and that NBC is considering picking up the soaps for their network.  Apparently, they understand how valuable these shows are and know that they will get a lot more viewers if they add them to their line-up.  Finally, a network with common sense!  Stay tuned everyone!

Saturday, April 23, 2011

ABC Soap Fans Refuse to Be Ignored Any Longer


My friends,

It has now been 9 days since the dreaded announcement from ABC that they were cancelling "All My Children" and "One Life to Live", AKA The A-1 First Class Blunder of the Century By A Network. It even surpasses the cancellation of "FlashForward" (also by ABC), which I have also been quite outspoken about. I have had some time now to process the news of the cancellation of my beloved soaps and can now try to put my feelings into coherent thoughts.  But please forgive me if I don't succeed because the wound is still too fresh. 

When I first heard about the cancellations, my first thought was not "Oh my God!  They're cancelling my favorite soap opera!"  It was more like "Oh my God!  They're murdering my extended family!"  And that isn't an exaggeration.  That's what this cancellation feels like. Like most soap opera viewers, my favorite soap opera characters have come to feel like family to me. You get to know these characters inside and out.  At times, I felt like I knew the characters better than the writers did.  It's so bad that one day I literally found myself screaming at a character on "General Hospital" for 10 minutes straight until I realized how I sounded and thanked God that no one was around to hear me.  I was like a crazy person!  Unfortunately, people who aren't soap opera fans don't get this. 

I have stated in a previous blog post that I have been watching soaps since I was in the womb.  I used to watch soaps with my mom when I was little until she stopped watching them.  I didn't watch again until I was about 13 years old, and I have been watching ever since.  That was almost 30 years ago.  One of my favorite shows was always "One Life to Live".  I have so many memories from this show!  My first memory of the show was Brad Vernon in prison and his wife Jenny at home with their toddler, Mary.  That was the beginning of one of the most heartbreaking storylines ever written for Daytime. I can remember crying when Jenny made the hardest decision of her life, to give up Mary to her real mother, Katrina.  I watched when Joe Riley brought Clint home to meet Viki and then when Joe died.  I watched Viki's children grow up.  I can name every one of Asa's and Bo's wives.  I sat through controversial storylines and the most heartbreaking storylines you will ever see like when Bo's wives Didi and Sarah and Viki's daughter Megan (Sarah's sister) died. I watched Marty Saybrooke and Megan both grow into caring people.  I can name all of Viki's alters (My favorite is Niki) and loved the rivalry between Dorian and Viki.  I could go on and on forever.  That's how long I've been invested in this show. I've cried with the characters and at times, I have been known to scream at the TV or throw something at it if I was upset about something on the show.  I had my favorite characters (Viki, Bo, Sarah, Mimi, Chuck, Tina, Jessica, Megan, Wanda, Jenny, Karen, Larry, Dorian, David Renaldi, Ben Davidson, Sloan, Troy, Colin, Lindsay, Nash, and Charlie are just some of them).  I even got angry when I felt the writers were ruining my favorite characters because I knew them so well.  So yes, it does feel like I'm losing part of my family.

As if the cancellation wasn't enough to deal with right now, we have had to deal with two more problems.  First there are the every day people who join these groups only to post messages on the boards like "Protest something important."  Excuse me?  If you aren't with us on this, why are you even a member of the groups to save the soaps? 

Then there are the snide, rude, insensitive remarks from people who are "in the biz".  Jenny McCarthy and Oprah to be exact.  I mean really--Have you SEEN Oprah's video to her fans...some of whom she has now lost because of her statements in the video?  Since these people are in show business, you'd think they'd be more sensitive to the fact that over 600 people have now lost their jobs. Oprah is the biggest offender here of all.  She talked to us like children in her video. and she clearly doesn't know what she is talking about as far as the numbers go.  To be fair, I thought maybe I was just being overly sensitive when I saw it until I started reading comments from other people.  Even professional journalists have picked up on it.  And she could save the shows if she wanted to. It would even benefit her network, OWN to do so because it would bring in viewers AND RATINGS.  You would think someone as smart as Oprah claims to be would figure this out, but she hasn't. So instead of saying a simple "Thank you for contacting me, but I simply can't help you", she has made a complete idiot of herself, and it is plastered all over the internet for everyone to see FOREVER. And didn't she just have a show about soap operas with some of the big stars as guests?  So she's ok with using them to get ratings, but when they need her to come through for them, she refuses to even TRY to help?  Nice...

There is one other thing that has me completely baffled.  It's been reported that the reasons for the cancellations are low ratings and high production costs.  Ok..makes sense I guess--to anyone without a single brain cell still working.  But what the network fails to consider is that times have changed.  We no longer have just one way of watching the show. It used to be that you could only watch when the show was on.  This was before the days of VCRs, DVRs, and Tivo.  Heck, you can even watch on the internet now. Therefore, Nielsen ratings are no longer accurate (as if they ever were to begin with).  Therefore, they should not rely on ratings numbers.  Fans and professional journalists can understand this.  All of us (fans and journalists) have  come up with ways that these shows can be saved.  The solutions are very simple, yet ABC hasn't been able to come up with them. The question is "Why?".  Is it because they are just looking for any excuse to get rid of these shows?  The fact that they can't come up with a solution makes me wonder if they just want to cancel the shows no matter what...even if there are logical solutions to the problem.

On the up side, I find it encouraging that the sponsors have started listening to us. 
Hoover, for one, has pulled it's advertising from ALL of ABC in protest of the cancellation.  A fact that ABC can't seem to understand the logic behind.  They have apparently never heard of a sponsor pulling their advertising to save a show, only to sink it.  I find this fact laughable because this is what protesting is...pulling something, in this case advertising, to protest a decision by the network.  DUH!  What part of that is not clear?  And I, for one, am not explaining it to them.  Other sponsors seem to be listening to us as well.  This is a very good sign. 

There have been other positive signs as well.  The Writer's Guild has asked ABC to reconsider their decision to cancel AMC and OLTL. Plus I have heard through various contacts that the fans are making a difference.  I've even heard rumors that Brian Frons' days at ABC are numbered.  The fans are making a difference just like I always knew we could.  Even if it is a small difference right now, this is progress.  I've never been so proud to be a soap fan in my life.